Passion

Nothing excites and inspires me like the passion my companion clients bring to our shared experiences. 

I am never quite sure what to expect when I meet a new client for the first time, and in my time in this business (just about a year now) I’ve never had an experience I wouldn’t want to repeat.

For me these encounters involve a degree of ritual. There’s the initial introduction, conversation, and planning before we confirm that we will share time and space. Then comes the ritual of preparing myself, which has become a romantic experience all on its own: choosing what I’ll wear, often based on my companion’s requests; bathing; applying moisturizer; and a dab of my favorite perfume. Sometimes I wear makeup, but most often only a touch of mascara and lip gloss. Then I watch the clock and wait.

Ritualizing passion means moving intensity from chaotic reactivity into deliberate, sacred practice. Rituals don’t kill heat — they translate it so passion amplifies presence.

While I’ve seen a few younger men who often arrive with nervous energy (which lands on me adorably; I don’t absorb the anxiety.  I can soothe it.) it is the older companions who bring the passion to our encounters, sometimes before I’ve closed the door behind them!  And this is where my soul ignites.  I can absorb, share and amplify your passion with my own.  I often struggle to describe these feelings with words.  If you’d told me years ago that I would feel such passion for a person I’d never met before I may not have believed you.  But your desire, amplified by the feeling of being chosen by you, by being desired by you…  It’s intoxicating.  

There are times where this energy has been nearly overwhelming, for me and possibly for my companions as well.  That was a surprise to me when I first began to observe it!  In my mind, it’s flattering for me (and I imagine it is also for my companion) that we are able to generate such a fire.  Now that I know this may occur I’ve at times introduced some simple tantric-style rituals into my client meetings, which is a great method for regulating my nervous system and staying fully present in my body.  

I was fortunate to learn these techniques from the talented and delicious Divina Marie (link to profile:  https://sacrederos.com/listing/tantric-pleasure-priestess/) when we were both visiting Atlanta, GA earlier this year.  She is based in Phoenix, AZ and I am certain anyone reading this would enjoy her company.  I learned so much from Divina Marie about other areas of my life and growth.  I’m grateful for her.  

Ritual transforms raw desire into a deliberate practice that deepens presence and preserves the sacredness of each encounter. Over time these rituals have become tools for safety, regulation, and authentic connection, allowing me to hold intense energy without losing myself. I am grateful for teachers and experiences that have taught me how to amplify passion while remaining steady, embodied, and fully present.